My Nightmare Client

August 25th, 2016 by DiQld

Recently, I had a client who is every sex workers nightmare. He was attractive, confident, cheeky, strong minded, successful, an Alpha Male. I was lost from the very first kiss. He kissed and embraced me just the right way for me and it sent me spiraling into Desire and need. The way he held me and kissed me I got lost in the lust. I was addicted to ‘US’ after the very first kiss…

We hadn’t even reached the bedroom yet. I needed this passion, the very passion that has seen me join dating sites and leave them, the passion I had with my ex husband, the passion I so thought I would never experience again! It was right in front of me! I needed this man in my life…

And then I fucked it up!

His passion and need seemed to be an echo of mine…I couldn’t wipe the smile from my face, and it was mirrored back at me from him.

As a sex worker I am so used to pleasing others it is a rare occurrence for me to have my guard dismantled so darn quickly and easily by a man. I have had 2 such men in my 10 years as a sex worker where all my rules and safeguards just collapsed and I relaxed and let them in.

He returned later that day at my invitation and we kissed and had a wine, talked and kissed more and watched the sun set. He told me he could see a lot of sunsets happening like this… I asked if he felt the same – in that this was crazy but amazing, he said yes. We were stunned at the obvious attraction and speed with which the lust had happened…

After he left we continued to text then he stopped without me having any idea why. I have never heard from him again and doubt I will … I did send him a final text apologising for allowing my guard slip and for allowing my professional to disappear.

Instead of staying the sex worker, I slipped into the ‘OMG what if’ basic female that we all are underneath our well put together work masks. Don’t get me wrong, the woman you see is the real me – but the money allows me to switch off that part that can get attached to the man that pays me. It really is true when they say – You don’t pay us to stay, you pay us to leave!

I have managed to put the guard back up but I am still hoping that he will come back and kiss me like that again… But at least I know I am still capable of that burning passion and heady lust given the right circumstances…

A reason, a season or a lifetime… Was he put into my path to show me it is still possible…

My July2015 Melbourne tour

July 23rd, 2015 by DiQld

Well what can I say… I bloody love visiting Melbourne. Some of you may know I spent my first 17 years there and then spent a couple more in my late teens/early 20’s.

This trip was especially important because I haven’t toured since 2012 because I didn’t think it fair to the Melbourne ladies to stretch the already scarce (GFC caused) client dollars any further. But a trip to Melbourne always renews my spirit and there are now a lot of Melbourne Ladies that are touring north. I could no longer handle the nagging from my Melbourne clients and I just missed Melbourne men to much… I had to go!

My first trip to Melbourne as a working lady was with a gorgeous lady by the name of Robyn Leslie in 2008, She taught me a lot about touring to Melbourne and so my July trip I was able to pass it on and introduce Melbourne to the sexy Nikki Lee (aka ntynikki or Nikki Cox) Unfortunately we were kept pretty busy so I didn’t have a chance to show her around, hopefully she will head back and check out all that Melbourne has to offer (outside the bedroom too).

My tour went very well and I will be returning very very soon so keep your eyes open and watch for my tour dates. I have decided that I will return to my original idea of touring which is no more that 4 clients in a 24 hour period so if you are thinking of seeing me and dont book early then you may just miss out. I like to have everything planned before I leave Brisbane and so I ask for deposits to secure the appointments. I realise that many people are nervous about paying for something from someone they dont know, but I have been in this industry a very long time and I am not one to risk my reputation for the sake of a few dollars.

Well all in all I had a great tour and I did get out to south Melbourne Markets but I was disappointed that I didn’t get some hot jam doughnuts but I got the Flake and the pizza so I am will just have to go back.

kisses Di

My move to the Valley

April 22nd, 2015 by DiQld

Well I have now been in the valley for 4 months, and I have to say whilst I enjoyed living at Sinnamon Park for 8 years I LOVE living in the Valley. I am meeting some new interesting people and I love that most of my regular clients are happy to come see me in my flash NEW digs.

The only thing I miss is the having an ensuite bathroom but this is more than offset by the fact that I could have a party in my new shower… perfect for water play 😉 lol

If you have been delaying coming to see me because I was too far southwest. I suggest you visit now that I am on the Northside of town.

Dinner bookings are awesome now because I have more than 50 places to choose from within walking distance…

I love my life.

What do I get up to in my down time…

December 5th, 2013 by DiQld

Well I have decided to let you all know a little more about my private life…

Something I did a while ago was join a ‘dating’ site…

Why – because I love men! I have been telling you this for years now and I think many of you failed to believe me. I am also looking for the perfect male to fit into my life… but it isn’t an easy search.

Now before all the single guys put up their hands I want you to know I don’t mix business and pleasure, because that would cost me an income and besides when guys come to see me it is about ‘what I can do for them’. I accept that at work but I don’t accept that sexual attitude in my private life and once that me switch is on it is almost impossible to turn it off in a man! That is not to say I am not tempted by my clients, I have some amazing guys that I care for deeply and it is always heart breaking when they move on or disappear back into their world.

I have learnt a lot about myself this year and the things I seek in a partner, a lover, a man. I am not a fair lover, I am greedy… I want my cake and eat it too… I want someone to adore me, but I want him to accept my job and allow me to have multiple lovers too.

He can also play but I need to be his first priority. I want to spoil him when I want to and then allow me the freedom to do as I please… I know what I seek is near impossible but I am certainly having fun looking!

more next time…

Blackmail doesn’t work on me

April 18th, 2012 by DiQld

Hi Everyone…

What do I do when my honesty, ethics and integrity are threatened???  I fight back!!!! I don’t mind being caught out if I have attempted to get away with something I have done… but look out if you accuse me of something I haven’t done and threaten to tell the world!!!

I work hard making sure that I offer good value for money, sometimes I allow too much. Why? because I genuinely enjoy making men happy!  I have been working since 2007 and I have never felt the need to defend myself to this level!

What – UGLY MUG – Blackmail
When – 10/4/12 – 18/4/12 –
Where – Brisbane.
Who – Paul – Accent weak European/arabic like Said he is 30 (sounded about right) and works in the CBD, said he was a SW virgin (I bet) starts very nice and gets progressively firmer!

How-
Called wanting a 2 hr booking later changed mind and said he wanted to try Ph sex first. I gave him my bank details and he rang just after lunch and said money was in my account… I checked every day for a nearly a week… no money meanwhile he is contacting me every few hours daily. Driving me nuts… so told him I think there may be a problem and gave him my bank details again.. he said that they were correct and he had a receipt no. I told him no money no ph call. today he said I was lying and that he had no reason for lying! now he is threatening to let “everyone know what sort of business I run” I told him that as this was my business reputation I had no reason to lie and I was happy to provide bank statement and if he could send me a pic of the receipt I would chase it up at my bank – he refused. surprise surprise! next contact was if you give me a service I wont post anything. Told him I dont respond to blackmail and to go his f**king hardest!

About to post the HOW to all my advertising sites.

An additional venue….

March 28th, 2012 by DiQld

Hi Guys,

Well after thinking about moving for sometime I have decided that I just cant make that step all in one go, I mean what would all my guys in the south west do with out me???

So I have decided to take on an additional premises to see if I really like living inner city… I have a new work place at Hamilton!!!! I am really looking forward to seeing if there is a difference in cliental and whether I get more or less calls… I am still going to be working from Home as well for the moment.

Tuesday was my first day in my new surroundings and I have to say that having no tv or entertainment was amazing… for the first time in ages I could actually get some downtime to think… I cleaned the mirrors in the unit… (a pet hate is dirty mirrors) then had a few minutes on the balcony watching a couple of very yummy guys do a couple of laps and lay on the lounges around the pool… Why is it that men from afar always look yummier!?!?!?!?!

Then it got interesting….
my computer decided that it didnt like the unit or the telstra wifi do-hicky and it wasnt going to talk to it at all! (still not working) it appears that my computer doesnt like using ipv6 and ipv4 wanted a rest! works ok at home! What the????? I can see an apple mac being the next purchase here…

the stereo then decided that it didnt like the cd and started jumping and stammering… So I turned it off… having sex in a white unit with no music is no fun I have to fix the music situation…

I got a call from a NEW client so gave him the address of the units and ran excitedly to get dressed for the occasion… Then I forgot the unit number so had to stick my head out the door to check ( I have written it down now!) then he arrived and pressed the buzzer, well I couldnt work out whether to press the talk button and talk or to hold it down and talk, tried both and ended up just and bugger if I didnt forget to ask the client if he heard me??? and OMG he was a welcome distraction… he was my very first client in my brand new unit…

The downside of having 2 units is definately the furniture thing… It is like starting out all over again… so bear with me till I get it all together… I want to take it slowly and enjoy the feeling of newness…

Kisses DiQld

BTW this is the first of many positive changes this year… So Stand by

We need your Help

February 9th, 2012 by DiQld

FINAL UPDATE

PLEASE READ BELOW

THIS WILL EFFECT EVERYONE IN THIS INDUSTRY both WORKERS and CLIENTS

21-5-13

Well the appeal decision has been delivered, and the supreme court appeal has been upheld. What that means is that GK has lost the appeal and whilst normally costs would be awarded to the winner, in this case GK was the only one to make an application for costs, so We think this may be the end. I haven’t personally read the judgement yet, but it is a disappointing result.

If we had of won, it would have meant that there was a possibility of getting the law repealed at some stage, but that seems very unlikely to happen now. As the law was changed earlier than the final decision this case had little consequence except the precendent and costs being awarded to GK.

I would like to thank everyone on behave of GK and the wider Sex workers community for your support, we really couldn’t have done what we have without your support.

 

13-2-13

Well Done everyone! We raised the needed funds to fight the appeal, so thank you to all who contributed in one way or another. We were all blown away by the support we received.

The Supreme Court Appeal Date has been set for mid MARCH 2013 and Mr Bliejie will be assisting the Motel Owners with the appeal. GK has retained her original Barrister.

As we know the anti-discrimination law in Qld was changed by Qld Attorney General Mr Bliejie so it is now legal for accommodation providers to evict or refuse accommodation to ANYONE using or intending to use accommodation for the purposes of sex work.

 

11-09-12

Re: The information below…  ‘GK’  WON the anti-discrimination appeal proving that it is discrimination to deny legal sex workers accommodation in motels/hotels based on the fact they are sex workers. However, the Motel/Hotel is appealing the decision in the supreme court. This is now a precedent setting case.

If we cannot raise the funds needed for the legal team, WE will be forced to GIVE UP.

If we do not fight this, then the Motels/hotels win! This will be disastrous for private sex workers and their Clients (you!)

 

What will that mean?

The END of ALL legal sex workers TOURING or WORKING from ANY MOTELS/HOTELS in QLD and possibly AUST.

Qld HOTELS/MOTELS WILL BE LEGALLY ABLE to REFUSE accommodation to anyone THEY SUSPECT of being a Legal Sex worker. This might be ANY SINGLE FEMALE staying by herself.

QLD Hotels/Motels WILL BE ABLE to throw ANY FEMALE THEY SUSPECT out at any time day or night without fear of recrimination.

Legal Sex workers WILL NO LONGER BE ABLE to work from ANY QUEENSLAND (and possibly Australian) HOTELS/MOTELS, whether a guest or not! NO MORE INCALLS or OUTCALLS in QLD

The ramifications are further stretching than this, MOTELS/HOTELS AROUND AUSTRALIA have been watching this PRECEDENCE SETTING case, and this legislation could possibly pervade the rest of the country.

We desperately need to raise $16,500 by October 1st.  Yes it is alot of Money, but this is a very achievable task, if we can get a lot of people to give a little.  PLEASE help save our rights to work and your right to play within the private legal sex industry in Queensland.  Tell your friends, tell your favourite working ladies.

We only need 300 donations of $55 (it is only 12 coffees!) This can come from 1 person or 300.   Account details are below.

This case has already cost $20,000 over the last year, and our last plea only garnered $6,000.  Come on people, this WILL affect us more than you realise.

The Bank Account for donations is:

BANK ACCOUNT NAME: Crimson Coalition

BSB: 114 879 ACCOUNT NUMBER: 483 605 476

BANK: St George Bank

 

Donation Appeal

PLEASE SUPPORT US and DONATE TO THIS APPEAL ESCORTS NEED YOUR ASSISTANCE

Ladies and Gents please donate to Karlaa’s (alias ‘GK’) Legal Appeal Karlaa, also known as ‘GK’, lost a very important Anti-discrimination Case against a motel in Moranbah that refused her accommodation on the grounds that she was a legal sex worker.

QCAT (Queensland Civil and Administrative Tribunal) found no case for discrimination as presented by Karlaa and the case was dismissed under a questionable interpretation of the Liquor Licensing Act which is what QCAT based their decision on.

This case creates a precedent now for licensed motels in Queensland to discriminate against touring sex workers from all over Australia.

Funds need to be raised for Karlaa to proceed with an appeal against this decision, as Karlaa has already spent approximately $3500 of her own money to get the case to where it currently is. If the appeal doesn’t go ahead then life as we know it will change dramatically for workers in Queensland. Escorts will find it very difficult to tour to or around Queensland and be able to work from Motels/Hotels without being “told” to leave or having the police called to “tell” you to leave! Also, if the decision isn’t overturned then it leaves the precedent that the Anti-Discrimination Act is a secondary piece of legislation. This will make it harder for workers to claim rights under this Act in other areas as well. Other cases of discrimination before the Anti-Discrimination Commission have been put on hold pending the appeal. If the appeal doesn’t go ahead or fails, then those pending cases will, according to the Commission, most likely be dismissed.

This means that the ground of ‘lawful sexual activity’ that protects us under the Act just won’t mean anything anymore.

Please note that the money being donated is being managed by Candi Forrest from Respect Inc. (QLD Sex Worker Org), with any leftover funds to be donated to Respect Inc.

The Bank Account for donations is:

BANK ACCOUNT NAME: Crimson Coalition

BSB: 114 879 ACCOUNT NUMBER: 483 605 476

BANK: St George Bank

Here is what some Escorts & Clients are saying:

** I’m stunningly shocked – this is a very, very serious issue. At this very moment in time – any Working Lady in any motel in QLD can be thrown out at any time based on the current decision from QCAT under the liquor licensing act.

** Right now – not a lot of motels know about this decision but given time – they will eventually all know.

** What can we do now? Nothing except offer Karlaa our support as peers and some financial aid.

** They have wanted to push us all into licensed brothels in Qld for a while – this may be one more step closer.

** If we fail it will severely restrict any Sex worker (national and international) from touring around Queensland initially but then as the hoteliers association catches on they can and WILL do the same thing across Australia….

** We need every person that is involved in the sex industry to support this please! Workers, clients, suppliers, Advertising sites, forum sites, Adult shops, absolutely every single person that could be affected if we are forced out of Motels/Hotels

** Geez, I can see that it is going to go back to Joh days with everything going underground in Qld – ridiculous in this day and age

** WE ARE GOING BACKWARDS. What a joke

** It is possible that WLS renting apartments could also be asked to leave, as the decision of QCAT is that WLs are not covered by the legislation IF THEY WORK FROM THE PREMISES AT ALL. So the only ones not at risk of being kicked out are people working from premises they own or are paying off via a mortgage…

** We need our clients support as well, as they need to know and understand what’s going on and how detrimental to our industry this decision could be if not appealed and overturned…

** Karlaa: It’s no longer just about me and one motel owner’s prejudice; it’s about ALL SEX WORKERS WHO WORK IN QUEENSLAND. Together we can stand up and be heard and fight this, as it does affect us all and our right to operate as independent, legal sole operators within Queensland. Legal fund balance stands at: $1072

** ALL and ANY donation/s are greatly appreciated x

Snot bubbles are Sexy!!!!

October 5th, 2011 by DiQld

Hi All,

Well this last week has seen me down with a rotten cold that had me in Bed ALONE 🙁

I dont often get colds luckily… This one was a shocker.

It always means a week off work due to me believing that snot bubbles are not all that sexy!!!

I just dont understand why people think they arent!!! Men I know are always trying to get us to exude fluids during hot and heavy sex and many just love being covered in sexual fluids!!!!

– they start with a build up… think the build up time between knowing you are going to have sex and actually having it..
– they only appear when you are hot and sweaty… Like good sex and heavy orgasms
– they glisten in the light… think hot moisture, soft light and after sex glow
– they require tissues to clean up… Hmmm Messy Sex – We all love that!!!
– You can’t always get them… according to a few people I know just like sex!!!

So I reckon snot bubbles should be declared sexy, or at least kinky… Do I hear that snot bubbles are the new fetish in town!!!!

What an interesting life I lead…

May 25th, 2011 by DiQld

Wow…

I would just like to say I love my life! It never ceases to surprise or delight me…

Thank you to ALL the people in my life that contribute to my life and smile. I really appreciate seeing you all some more often than others 😉 but I wouldnt trade any of you, You are all truly amazing and deserve the best. I can’t thank you enough for the continued love and richness that each and every one of you bring to my life.

Kisses Di

What have I been up to…

April 15th, 2011 by DiQld

Last week was fantastic! Flew to Melb for 3 nights, a day for work, a couple of days of play and catching up with friends, and a visit to SexyLand. The trip was pretty spontaneous and so I contacted a couple of gentlemen that wanted me to let them know when I was in Melb next and within a few hours I had my work day fully booked with a new gentlemen (lets call him BREAKFAST) and a gentleman I love catching up with (Lets call him LUNCH).

Wow what a work day… I am always hesitant to take a long booking if I have not met the person before, after all who wants to spend 6 hours with someone that you dont know if you will get on with??? But I took the booking because BREAKFAST had been messaging and texting me and following me on Twitter and facebook for over 4 months now and always seemed a respectful and genuine man. I have to say BREAKFAST was a fantastic younger guy (mid 20’s) and we spent what turned out to be a very short 6 hours together having fun 🙂 we were supposed to grab a bite together within the 6 hours…. Ooops didnt get out of the bedroom!!! Used nearly all of my condoms and lube I had bought with me 😉 When our time was up, BREAKFAST was very apologetic that we didnt stop for something to eat and gave me an extra $50 to get something to eat… What a sweety 🙂 (Since he has been texting to make sure I set aside enough time for him when I return in May.)
With very little time to catch my breath LUNCH arrived and we had a fabulously naughty time playing with my ropes, blindfold and my new toy Pepe that I bought at SexyLand. Hehehehe I can still see that smile and hear him say how intense the experience was – I do love my job 😉

I have to tell you I love visiting Melb and I adore going to Sexyland… I always buy something when I visit Melb and this time I bought a couple of new outfits and some new toys… If you havent been there you will love it! It is like bunnings only with all things sexual. Male and Female Clothing and Costumes, Shoes nd Boots, Porn Movies and Magazines, Instructional Movies and magazines, Games, Tools and Equipment ;), and every adult toy under the sun….

I am getting quite an arsenal hehehe no pun intended – ok maybe there was 😉
a quick stocktake of toys to play with at my place….
Andy – anal probe
Benny – Ball gag
Bobby – blindfold
Cocky – Cock rings (3 sizes)
Corey – Cuffs
Casey – Cane
Donny – dildo
Freddy – flogger
Pepe – penis pump
Paddy – paddles
Percy – Prostrate vibrator
Rocco – Rocco Siegfriedi penis bust – Now that is an bove average penis! Scares most lol
ronny – ropes
nobby – nipple clamps
Sammy – sex swing
Sandy – Strap on
Sonny – Slapper
Terry – tie downs (attached to the bed)
Tommy – Electric Toothbush
Timmy – Tommy’s apprentice
vinny – vibrator average penis size and look
There are a few more toys but I dont us them enough to name them… and then there are the clothes I like to wear when with you… Sheer Lingerie, Baby Dolls, Matching underwear, Short skirts, Tight Shirts, Satin Corsets, Lace shorts, Lace tops, Short Nighties, Satin robes, G-Strings, Briefs, Pantyhose, Fishnets,Fishnet Body stocking, Stockings (both the Stay up and Suspender), High Heels and Knee length boots and ankle boots. Naughty School Girl or Nice School Girl, Easter Bunny, Present, bikie girl… If there is something that you think I should have that I havent mentioned let me know…

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