Kissing 101

November 5th, 2010 by DiQld

I found this article By Dhananjay Kulkarni (I would like to thank him for the information) on a website called

Personally I think the Do’s and Dont’s are really important…

Kissing for me is an introduction to what might be…
It should be an inticement of what is to come therefore a sensual kiss should leave you wanting more…

Tips on Kissing
Couples should not limit kissing merely to times like making out, or as the conclusion to a date or a prelude to something more. Kissing your lover should be an everyday affair, an expression of your love for her. You should not use every kissing session as a prelude to sex.

Goog and Bad Kissing
If you are a bad kisser, what a woman will never, ever say to you she was going to have sex with you until just that moment. This is one of the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to a woman but discovers she’s a bad kisser and if he is presented with the opportunity, he’ll probably have sex with her anyway. A woman can’t get past a bad kiss. After all, if he hasn’t mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for, ahem, anything else?

Kissing Techniques
The secret to being a great kisser is to keep it simple and sexy. Forget about impressing her with that Casanovian kiss. Instead, indulge yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of any kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she’s opening the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment!

You could ask him/her to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.

And what about when you’re with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you’re together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.

Dos and Don’ts for Kissing
Don’t drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don’t like wet or sloppy kisses.
Don’t keep your lips stiff and rigid. You’ve got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.
Don’t keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don’t enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
If you don’t know how to kiss properly, try to practice on the back of your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman that you’re dying to become intimate with. You could also practice kissing yourself on the mirror.
In short, if you really want to succeed with single women in the love and romance department, you must be a good kisser.

A great kiss should always be when you’re alone with her. A movie theatre is a good place because it’s dark and people won’t be paying attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. But I do believe that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you’re dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one another until the next time, ask her if it’s okay if you kiss her. It’s not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It’s respectful and kind.

Daniel Day-Lewis belongs in the kissing hall of fame for Best Use of Hands. He gently caresses his costar’s face and touches her hair, a model of how hands can increase the erotic pleasure of the moment.

Bear in mind the hands should not be used to prevent the woman from going anywhere or to clamp her head into one uncomfortable position. Remember most women like men to toy gently with their hair. After decades of bad press about sticky hairsprays and helmet hair, most of us have been using products to enhance “touch ability” and are favoring hairstyles that look good a bit tousled. So go ahead and touch hair. And quit using all that sticky hairspray and goo so we can go back to touching yours.

Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing… if you are not experienced, save the French kissing (kissing using your tongue) for later. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips. When you are comfortable kissing your partner, experiment with different ways to taste and nuzzle his lips. Caress his lips by brushing your lips back and forth against them, lick the outside corners of his mouth, and try using different pressures and movements to gently explore your partner’s lips. Notice how good his lips feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better!

Public Transport

November 3rd, 2010 by DiQld

A Fantasy – Kindly donated by a horny friend…

I’ve never been a fan of public transport, must be something about all those bodies in a confined space I guess. However something happened recently that has made me change my mind.
I had dropped my car off for a major service so I had to catch the bus home from work. Sitting near the back of the bus I started day-dreaming about what I was going to do when I got home. The bus was getting full now and all around me people were busily fiddling about with their phones, ipods and other various techno gadjets. We made another stop, more people got on and began squeezing their way towards the back. A woman who had got on at a previous stop had been shuffled back so far that she was now standing beside me. There was just something about the way that she carried herself that made me take notice.
She was a mature woman with sandy blonde hair, brown eyes, lovely curves and gorgeous boobs. She wore a buisness suit with a shirt unbuttoned just far enough, a mid thigh length skirt with a split at the side, black stockings and high heels. Looking like a very confident and in charge kind of woman, I began wondering what she was doing on the bus. Perhaps her Mercedes was in the dealership and she had to find another way home too.
The bus pulled away from the stop and everyone held on as we moved off down the road. I suddenly realised that a true gentleman would give up his seat for a lady. So, seeing my chance I turned to her and offered to surrender my seat. She smiled and thanked me for the offer but said that she had been sat down in meetings all day and was actually glad to be standing up for a while as she had quite a sore bum. I wasn’t quite sure how to respond to that comment as visions of me volunteering to massage her lovely bum to make it all better began to flood my brain. Instead I just smiled and turned to look out of the window. It wasn’t until I saw something moving in the corner of my eye that I turned back to see that she had taken one of her shoes off and was tapping it against the seat to remove some foriegn object. It was at this point I also noticed her sexy feet and her red painted toenails. She put her shoe back on and standing there beside me I began to wonder if she was wearing stockings or pantyhose. A question that was soon answered as she changed hands on the handrail and shifted her stance to favour her other leg. As she did so the hem of her skirt hitched on the side of the seat and the split parted enough to allow me just a glimpse of the lace part of the top of her stockings. Being a big fan of stockings and heels I found it hard not to look and soon had to change my own position in my seat to hide my state of arrousal. Just changing position was not enough, there was another guy sat in the seat next to me and I didn’t want him thinking that I was standing to attention for his benefit so I reached to the floor to get my laptop out of its bag. As I did so the bus rounded a corner and my hand brushed against the womans stocking clad leg. I froze for a moment anticipating a scream or a slap on the back of the head, as neither was forthcoming I looked up and smiled apologetically. Whether she didn’t care or she realised it was an honest accident I wasn’t sure but as she smiled back at me the hint of mischief in her eyes was unmistakable.
My laptop was now in position and I had logged on to some random website to make it look like I was doing something important. I looked around us. Everyone was packed in tight and nobody was looking down, they were all too busy playing with electronic gadjets, reading or looking out of the windows. So as I placed the bag for my laptop back onto the floor I brushed my hand against her leg once more. This time I made sure that she knew it was no accident. I had positioned the screen of my computer so as I could see her in it. As I looked at the reflection of her face she smiled back at me then winked. I took this to mean that my hints at an advance were not unwelcome and so with one final glance around the bus to make sure no one was watching I let my arm fall down by my side. The anticipation of touching her made me tremble as I reached across and put my hand on her calf then began to stroke it slowly. She leant in towards me and pressed her hip against my shoulder. Gently carressing her calf, I ran my fingers up and down the seam on the back of her stocking. I looked around the bus again, everyone was still oblivious to what was going on in front of them so I moved my hand first to her knee then higher to her soft and silky thigh. Her hand was on the rail at the back of my seat and her long red fingernails began stroking the back of my neck. I was now fondling the lacey part of the top of her stockings and was beginning to imagine what the touch of her satin underwear would feel like. This question would remain unanswered as to my surprise I soon discovered that she had left the house this morning without under wear. She had however, had time for a shave. My cock was so hard now that it almost tipped the laptop onto the floor. Sensing my intention she parted her legs further and I reached up higher and began to gently massage her clit with my middle finger. The warm wetness of her pussy was all over my hand so I drew two fingers backwards then slowly slid them inside her as her long red nails bit hard into the back of my neck. I began stroking my fingers in and out of her in long slow motions. I could feel her hip gyrating against my shoulder. Then the bus suddenly hit a pothole and she let out a little shriek as my fingers were forced deep inside her. I looked around us expecting to get caught but most people seemed to be more entertained by the embaressing girly scream that eminated form the guy sat two rows in front of us. Just as I was regaining my composure the bus slowed and pulled over. The woman gently returned my hand to my side then stood up straight and adjusted her skirt. I thought the reason she had stopped me was we had nearly been caught but instead she leant down beside me and whispered “This is my stop, are you coming or are you just going to sit there nursing that hardon?” I didn’t need to think twice.
We got off the bus along with three other people and as it pulled away I turned towards her to introduce myself. I hadn’t even opened my mouth before she met me with “Don’t tell me your name, follow six paces behind me and don’t spend all your time staring at my ass”. Fuck! I thought, what was I getting myself into here? She turned and started walking up the street. I waited for her to get six paces ahead of me then followed. I was just wondering what it was going to be like to get my hands on that beautiful bum when WHACK! I stubbed my toe on a section of the footpath that had been lifted up by a tree root. SHHHHIIT! that hurt, I dropped my laptop and tried to stiffle a silent scream. From six paces ahead I heard “I told you not to spend all your time staring at my ass”. Bloody hell, from now on I’ll do as I’m told I thought as I limped off after the owner of that gorgeous rear end and those lovely boobs.
I had followed her through the gate and up a couple of steps to the front door of her townhouse. I hardly had the time to close the door behind me before she pushed me backwards hard up against the door and, stepping forward plunged her tongue down my throat. I ran my hand up her neck and grabbed the back of her head then kissed her back hard as she opened my shirt and began raking her long red nails across my chest. Those lovely boobs were straining against her shirt buttons so I peeled off her jacket and began taking off her shirt while she unzipped my fly then reached inside my pants and started to stroke my cock. Her shirt fell to the floor and I wrestled with the srtap on her bra until I managed to release her gorgeous breasts. Leaning forward I took one in my mouth and licked and sucked on her nipple as she now had my cock out of my pants and was stroking it hard. Suddenly she let go of my cock then took me by the hand, I followed her towards the stairs that led up to her bedroom. She started to climb the stairs but I couldn’t wait, reaching out I grabbed her waist and stopped her on the first step. She knew what I wanted and leant forward to take hold of the railing at the side of the staircase. Standing behind her I dropped to my knees and began carressing her stocking clad legs. Starting at the ankle I kissed the seam on the back of her stockings and followed it up her leg until I came to the lace at the top. She giggled as I softly kissed her gorgeous bum then, as I began kissing the inside of her thigh she parted her legs further and the sweet smell of her pussy washed over me. I took a firm grip on her leg with my left hand and placed my right on her back then, pushing her forward a little more I slid my tongue inside her. She moaned softly as I continued licking her pussy and massaged her clit with my fingers. Her taste was incredible and I could have stayed down there longer but when she said “I want your cock inside me!” I was only too happy to oblige. Her long red nails gripped the carpet on the stairs as she bent over in front of me. I spread her legs a little further then positioned my cock between her thighs and began rubbing it up and down her clit. She reached between her legs and took my cock in her hand then, moving it back slightly she pushed just the tip inside her. I could feel the warmth and wetness of her pussy on my cock so I tilted my hips back, grabbed her by the waist then entered her slowly. She let out a low moan as I picked up the pace slightly and began sliding the length of my cock in and out of her. Looking down I could see her lovely bum peeking out from under her skirt so I undid the zip on the back and slid it up around her waist to give me a better view as I drove myself into her hard. We both sensed the need for some more comfortable surroundings so I withdrew my cock and tickled her on the bum. She shrieked as she took off up the stairs and I chased after her.
We burst through the bedroom door and stopped by the side of the bed where I took her in my arms and kissed her passionately. She turned then pushed me backwards so that I fell onto the bed. Lying on my back I took hold of the rail at the foot of the bed with both hands to pull myself round to a better position. She clamped her hands on top of mine, straddled me then began to slide her pussy up and down the length of my cock. It was so wet it felt incredible as she allowed just the tip of my cock to enter her. She began riding me but did not allow my full length inside her, every few strokes she would take a little more then a little more, teasing me until I thought I would scream then she tilted her hips, sat down hard and started to grind on my cock. I gripped her hips and began to mirror the rhythm with which she was riding me, faster and faster until I heard myself scream “Oh God yes, Fuck Me!” I adjusted my position on the bed and was able to drive up hard into her every time she came down on me. She then leant forward so that I could take her gorgeous boobs in my mouth and I began licking and sucking her nipples as she moaned with approval.
The sweat was beginning to pour off our glistening bodies as she rolled off me and positioned herself on all fours so that I could take her from behind. She parted her legs and I gently pushed my hard cock inside her. She let out a low, soft moan as I began fucking her with long smooth strokes. I parted the cheeks of her lovely bum so that I could watch my cock slide in and out of her slowly then she turned to me and said “You can fuck me as hard and as fast as you like”. Her skirt was still pushed up around her waist so I bunched it up and held onto it with both hands like a set of reins. Steadily I increased my pace. Faster and faster, I built up my rhythm until she lifted her head from the pillow and let out an almighty “Ohhh Fuck!” This only spurred me on and gripping her tightly, I began driving myself into her hard. The air was filled with a furious slapping sound as our bodies crashed into each other over and over with increased speed. A wave of pure ecstacy was washing over me and I had to look this beautiful woman in the eye as we played so I slowed my pace and withdrew my cock before turning her over onto her back.
Taking both of her legs I raised them up over my shoulders then took my cock in hand and began sliding it up and down her wet pussy, stopping just to slap it gently against her clit. This made her giggle sweetly as I tilted my hips forward then I gasped as pushing down I felt her female warmth envelope my hard cock once more. Passion overcame me again and I began fucking her hard as I gripped her stockinged thighs. Kissing and licking her silky soft legs I drank in the smell of our sex and started stroking her even faster as she screamed “Fuck me just like that!” My lips had reached her ankles and I couldn’t resist any longer so, reaching down I grabbed hold of one of her stockings then ripped it off and wrapped it around my neck. With a firm grip on her ankles I started kissing her sexy feet from the heel up untill I reached her lovely naked toes. I kissed each one in turn until I got to the big toe then I parted my lips and let it slid into my mouth and started sucking it as she gripped the sheets and said “Fuck! that feels good!” I could sense that we were both close to the edge now so using my last reserves of strength I pumped her as hard as I could. Her legs started to tense and straighten out which pushed me back hard and I thought my spine was about to crack. She bit her lip and began shaking as I gripped her ankles and thrust myself up and forward one last time letting out a scream of my own as I came hard inside her. I reached forward to hold her waist. My cock was throbbing inside her still as her legs shuddered. I gave a few final slow strokes then gradually withdrew, kissed her softly on her lips then collapsed onto the bed beside her, utterly spent and completely satisfied.
We laid in each others arms talking for what seemed like an eternitiy before finally and regretably I had to leave. We parted at her front door and since that moment I count the days until if I am lucky enough, I may just have the pleasure of meeting her again. Because after all, it is just ALL about the girl.